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DEVOTIONS FOR February 22-27, 2010

Topic:  “Rivalry- Choosing to Love our enemies”

Don’t forget to start your devotion time with a prayer!

Ask God to speak to you through His word and that His Spirit would give you

understanding as you APPLY His truth to your life. 

 

Devotions Archive

Spend time with the devotions this week.  Read the Scriptures and then think how you can apply them to your life.
    

 

 MONDAY February 22

   Look up and read Leviticus 19:18  and  Galatians 5:13

An Old Testament Command In Leviticus, God instructs the Israelites not to seek revenge, or bear a grudge against another person.  Instead, He instructs them to “_______ your neighbor as __________.”(vs. 18)  We hear this in the New Testament too from Jesus and again from Paul.  In Galatians, Paul reminds us that we are called to be free.  Instead of using that freedom for ourselves, we are called to _______ one another in ________.   What does that look like?  When we are not motivated by love, we become critical of others- and that’s how rivalries start.  We stop seeing the good in people and look only at their faults.  This breaks up unity.  Have you talked behind someone’s back?   Have you focused on someone’s shortcomings instead of their strengths? Does your attitude need to change in regards to a relationship in your life?  Ask God to remind you today of Jesus’ command to love your neighbor (even your rivals)- as you would love yourself. (see Matthew 22:39)

 

 

TUESDAY February 23

Look up and read Luke 6:27-29

 

Don’t Have Rivals…Love Jesus tells us: “________ your enemies, do ________ to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, __________ for those who mistreat you.”(vs. 27-28) Wow- that’s tough! Verses 32-34 go on to say that everyone can love people who love them in return.  Think about it: would you be more likely to love your grandma who makes you feel like the most special person in the world, or is it easier to love that person at school who never seems to pay much attention to you?  Most of us would agree that it’s easier to love grandma. But Jesus calls us to love even when it’s hard- even when that person might not ever love us back.  How can we do this? When we pray for people (vs. 28), it’s hard to keep holding angry feelings in our hearts.   We know that our reward comes in the form of God’s love, so we have no need to have rivals.  Think about how you treat people in your life. Do you treat everyone the same?  Or do you tend to be friendlier towards the people who are nice to you in return?  Spend some time thinking about how you can make an effort to show love to the people who may be more difficult to love.  Pray for those people who come to mind and see how God changes your heart towards them.

 

 

WEDNESDAY February 24

Look up and read Ephesians 4:22-27

 

Don’t Stay Angry- Be New!  Verses 22-24 say “You were taught with your former way of life to ______   _______ your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made _______ in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the ______ self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”  When we choose to accept Christ, we are called to CHANGE.  God doesn’t want us to live the same way anymore.  Instead we are to be made NEW.  And what does that look like?  Verses 25-27 gives us an idea of how this relates to our relationships.  We are called not to let the sun go down on our anger.  This doesn’t mean that we can’t ever have disagreements, but we should treat them the right way because anger can destroy relationships.  When we bottle up our feelings, it can destroy us from within.  Are you angry with anyone right now?  What can you do to resolve your differences?  Like verse 25 says, we are _______ body- so we need to do everything we can to stay united.  Pray for God’s help today to mend any broken relationships in your life.  Look for ways to speak truthfully and in an encouraging way to ALL the people you’ll deal with today.

 

 

THURSDAY February 25

Look up and read  1 John 2:9-11  and  Romans 5:8

Live in the Light As Christians, we are called to live in the light (which is Christ) and also to be the light to the world.  This scripture points out that anyone who hates his brother is still in the _____________. (vs. 9)  As Christians, we might not always feel like loving everyone in our life- but love is not a feeling, it is a choice.  There will always be people who disagree with us and who may be irritating and even our enemies, but as Christians, we can still treat them with respect.  Romans 5:8 tells us “…while we were still __________ Christ died for us.” If Jesus could love us enough to die for us while we were still choosing to sin against Him, can we not love the people in our lives?  God will help us express this love.  Spend some time today asking God to remind you of His love for you so that with that love you can share it with others- even the people who are hard to love.

 

 

FRIDAY February 26

Look up and read  Matthew 5:23-24  and  1 John 4:20

Make Things Right with Your Brother Jesus says that if you are coming to offer something to God and remember that you are in a disagreement with your brother FIRST go and make things right, then come back and offer your gift to God.  The use of the word “first” is very important.  Why do you think Jesus tells us that our relationships with each other should be settled before we come before God?  He knows that broken relationships can get in the way of our relationship with God.  1 John 4:20 reminds us that we can’t say we love God if we don’t love our brother.  Think about it.  How do you think God feels when we talk about someone behind there back, but then tell God in our prayers that we love Him?  Do those actions really reflect loving Him with our whole heart?  Spend some time in prayer today reflecting on what you can do to make sure that your actions match what you say.  Make a choice to love God today by loving the people at school, in your family, and whoever else you come in contact with.

 

 

SATURDAY February 27

Look up and read Matthew 5:9

Be a Peacemaker “Blesses are the _____________ for they will be called ________ of God.”  What is a peacemaker?  What comes to mind when you think of the word peace?  How does that relate to relationships?  Is there peace in your relationship if you’re in an argument with a friend?  Is there peace when you choose to be jealous of someone?  Being a peacemaker is part of being surrendered to God. God is the One who gives us peace. When we let go of trying to be better than our rivals and trying to always be right, we get to take part in sharing God’s peace with our enemies, and we experience the peace for ourselves.  God wants us to live as His sons and daughters.  That means we need to rely on Him and seek to love like He wants us to love.  Take a few minutes and think about someone in your life who you would consider to be a peacemaker. What makes them stand out to you?  How can you make some changes to be more of a peacemaker?  Pray for God to make His peace real to you and focus today on sharing that peace with others.

 

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